some days you want pecans, some days you want walnuts...and some days you just get stuck with peanuts.
Can you use another SW?? We had a little bit of that problem with our last adoption. We were approved for 2 but then found the sibling group of 4 and they went on and on of how much work that would be and they have to really think about it.....We finally told them that they can either approve us or we will find another agency that will. They know you for a whole 2 months and they think they know what is best for your family. We have had no problems with four at one time and hated when they thought we couldnt handle it. Praying for you and the kids!!!